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Stress.. 1 more day to exam.. and i still have 20 out of 26 chap. to read through.. damn.. thatz a total of 400 freaking pages to go~~!! Jia you!!!
Looking forward to thurday... damn exciting stress happily.... I love cars... loving it more everyday... haiz..
Something i wanna tok abt.. sex.. in a relationship nowadayz it had become quite a common thing among us.. but does it really benefits u? (think all the guys going to kill me for saying these) I'm quite disturbed by guys forcing/threatening their gf into doing it with them, saying things like if u love me u must do it with me.. or "oh.. u are the one i wanna marry.. so why not do it now?" or "i'm a guy.. i got the 'needs'.. if u can't give it to me.. ok i look for other girls" etc etc.. but there is one thing call- RESPECT.. respect ur gf.. if she dun wanna do it or not ready.. DUN force her.. respect her wish and cherish her..
why am i saying these?? i'm not saint.. I'm a guy too.. I admit that i enjoyed making love with my love ones.. its the most precious and intimate thing shared between a couple.. but it have to be two ways... guys.. u can't be self-fish as to care only abt ur own needs and lusts.. and hurt the girls if they are not ready... or dun want.. if u really love her.. and sure that u can love her for life.. then why not wait till ur wedding day? (if thats wat she wants)
and girls... pls think seriously before engaging into a sexual relationship.. it can be stressful... and many things to care abt.. like- unwanted pregnancy (its really stress esp when ur period is late) STD... it may oso lead to breaking up.. (some guys are really bastard to dump away gf after sex-ing them or worst they dump u after finding out that u are pragnant or treating gers as their sex slave) sching gers.. it may oso affect ur future..
gers.. ur body is the most precious thing in the whole world... dun take sex too lightly.. only do it out of love.. i mean only do it with guys that really cherish you.. best really wait till u are married.. (hahha.. damn.. think i got too carried away)
I might not sound convincing coz who am i to say all these.. I did it too.. but i juz wanna tell u all the fact.. if u all still think u are ready.. really love that person that cannot leave him/her.. comfirm that he/she oso love u that much as to take up the responsibilty when anything may occurs.. well go ahead! its a beautiful thing.. it oso helps to improve the relationship.. bringing it to a higher level.. but keep in mind.. safety first.. plz take precaution.. be responsible!!
tricks that guys always use and ways to rejected it-
Guy- "I love u dear.. if u love me too lets do that"
ans- "i love u too.. and i know that u love me enough to wait till i'm ready dear.."
Guy- "U are the one i comfirm marrying.."
ans- "yah.. wait till our wedding day.. save the best for the last man!"
Guy-"i'm a guy.. i got my needs my urge"
ans-"wats are your hand for?"
Guy-"if u dun do it with me.. fine i go find other girls"
ans-"welcome to HIV club"
Guy-"if u dun do it lets break up!"
ans-"Fine! bye bye!!" ( if a guy wants u only for sex.. dumo him asap!!)
bluefantasy
12:49 AM
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